Need advice. Am I overreacting for the 2nd time over same issue?

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My husband was rude to me for a simple thing " I lowered the volume (it was loud) of the music because I was tired - I just had left work and he was picking me up- He, then immediately turn it back up saying that he was listening the music. 
I got upset but let him listening the music. I was upset and quite all the ride and during dinner. 
I, then say sorry for overreacting . I was expecting an apology back for how rude and insensitive he was but he said nothing. He just accepted my apology. I asked him if he didn't have anything to say and he said no.

That made me very sad and I have been quite not rude for about 3 days. I am disappointed at him. I would like to bring up the topic but I am afraid he will turn things around and make me feel that I am again overreacting.

could you please tell me if I am overreacting for the second time?

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I don't understand why it's a big deal and why you are so sad about it. Is there anything else going on too or is it just that? (I mean that in the nicest way possible)

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Maybe you should've said "babe do you mind turning that down a little?" Instead of you just turning his music down, I don't think he needs to apologize, I think you do... I say let it go but if it's really bothering you just tell him you didn't mean to turn his music down like that you just had a long day and it was too loud. but next time you know it would be more suitable to ask him.. I mean if you're watching a movie and he just turns the movie off because it's bothering him you would give him the side eye lol even though you guys are in a relationship or married or whatever it's about communication and respect, either way it's nothing to feel bad about for days I know you're probably pregnant and emotional but I would say you're overreacting because I guess you're saying he needs to apologize for not apologizing or feeling bad about the situation? but that's just my opinion. Talk to him but don't argue about it.

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Yes you are overreacting. Nothing is wrong and its all in your head.

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All he did was listen to his music a little too loudly and you let him do it so I dont understand why you're upset...

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You're making this into something way bigger. Just move on, not worth a fight

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You are overreacting. You should have said honey I'm tired can you lower the music? You just don't get in the car and lower it. How do you know that song wasn't releasing him if his stressful day also? Just let it go

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Thank you all. It is good to have an unbiased opinion. I will work out on my reactions towards him. He is a good husband! I just don't know how I feel sometimes.

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All he said was he was listening to it... why does he have to apologize?...

Need advice. Am I overreacting for the 2nd time over same issue?

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