Husband grabbed me..... non sexual

Dominique
My husband and I got Into a big fight.... and he started grabbing, pulling, pushing me around the house. And I'm not gonna stand there and be drug so I pushed him back telling him to stop... he wouldn't he started forcing me into the room I guess to shut me up. He's grabbed me before but never like this... I'm not saying I'm innocent at all, we are both wrong but since when is it ok to hurt me??? It's been two days and my arms still hurt.. to make it worse my kids heard the whole thing.. they're crying scared he's hurting me..... I haven't talked to him in the two days and he's tried talking and apologizing but this has truly hurt me in more than one way.... I just don't know what to im so lost. I love him but I love myself and kids safety more... I just don't know. 😢😪😞
Now he's playing the victim because I won't talk to him.. not ok at all.