We decided on a name Matthew Travis. First name after my dad and middle name after my SOs dad. Last night he came to me after I was so happy about the name and said I want it to be the other way around so my dad doesn't feel like he's second. This was the first name I had chosen before we were pregnant, I'm not changing it unless we choose a whole different name and go with his first name as the middle name instead and not name the baby after our dads. Did that really have to be a fight? He said he should be able to name his first son but it's my son too, my first son and I have always wanted to name him after my dad...