Do you ladies agree or disagree!?

I hate when I see posts saying "I'm carrying the baby so I should be able to *blank*!" For example when a women says she's the one who's having the baby so the father should just go along with whatever the mother wants to do! I don't agree with that at all. I don't think being a mother makes you more of a parent then if you were the father. And it makes me feel bad for the dads to be who's baby mothers think they can control everything with the baby.