I've never been with a man who has children so when I met my OH I was so excited to meet his son when we were both ready. The first few months were amazing (he was only 1 when I met him) we have him every weekend and some times one or two nights during the week. Most of the time during the day I have him by myself because oh was at work but he's started being a handful by myself. I don't mean to sound like a b***h but I don't know how to handle him, I don't want to be the big bad stepmom but I can't let him off with it. Yesterday when we were going to the shop I had carried him when he wanted down so I let him down and told him that he had to hold my hand as we live beside a busy main road and he through himself to the floor screaming so I took him back to the house after he calmed down and we were going out he was great then we got back and I gave him some snacks and a milkshake soya carton and he poured it over his high seat so I obviously took it away and cleaned it up and took him out and for a solid 45 he was screaming, throwing phone at me, bottles, clothes, the brush; hit the dog over the head until I took him away! Then my OH was around his mums last night and he told her about it, it makes me feel like I'm incapable or useless with him telling people things like this. Is this normal or am I incapable? How do I deal with it