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Am I terrible

Ms • Tue, May 09

So in October I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, but it was not without complications.

I had to be induced at 35+5 due to severe preeclampsia. Delivery went relatively well, but less than a week after my daughter was born I ended up back in the hospital and almost died. Turns out I had postpartum preeclampsia as well.

The whole situation was very traumatic for me, and led me to not want more kids.

My husband has always wanted 2-3...that's what we agreed on before actually having any. Am I terrible now for changing my mind? He wants to start trying when she's 1, I'm just not sure what to do.