Can anyone relate or help?

Okay so me and my boyfriend have been under a lot of stress lately due to jobs and family matters but good God he hasn't touched me in almost a month and a half. I get he's stressed but honestly it's becoming a little frustrating... I'm stressed too and you know what sounds great just some amazing rough sex. But no he barely even looks at me. And I do tell him I feel this way and he just says a lots going on. *sigh* the most "pleasure" I get now is stepping into a hot shower.