Has anyone else ever been scared to move out of state?

RiRi , P & PJ’s Mom 💗💖💙
Idk. I'm in CA and I was born and raised. And I want to move out of it, and I've posted questions about states on here and got others opinnions. To start with I want to move because I've never wanted to live here forever and I hate the summer here it's our longest season and I hate summer as it is too like burning stinging hot. Some days I cant even go outside and the Ac bill is killing me lol. BUT I cant seem to pick a state no matter how much info I get. I continue to ask questions about states which is still good, but I'm comfortable with Cali. I know this state when it comes to everything. Every other state almost is starting to look not good enough like I'm looking for the diversity, more Democrat or liberal ISH lol. I want a state better than Cali. Nice people, a place where I can call home and that my 10 month old can call home. Has anyone ever been scared to move from what they know?