Postpartum pooping!?

It's been 2 weeks since I've given birth, and I am still having such a hard time pooping! I've been taking stool softeners every day since I've had him and their not helping, I literally bawl my eyes out every time I go, and sometimes I sit on the toilet for 40 minutes and can't even go. What else can I do to soften my poop so I'm not in so much pain!? It's literally worse than giving birth!!!