Is anal really as painful/scary as it seems?

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So a while back I had a bad experience with anal sex and now my boyfriend who I've been with for two years wants to try it. Im willing to do it just very nervous. Are there tips or anything I should know beforehand​? I already got a shit-ton -no pun intended, of lube. Thank you

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Just make sure you're relaxed. It helps me when he's fingering me and brings me to the edge and starts to slide into my ass. It'll make you focus on the pleasure he's giving you which helps you relax and makes it less painful. For me anyway.

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It's really good , just relax , it also helps your butt 👌

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Get an anal trainer. It makes all the difference. It will slowly stretch and you get used to the sensation a little bit while it. And lots of other simulations (nipple, clit ) at first.

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Lots of lube, comfortable position, relax, breathe, make sure you have gone to the bathroom and cleaned (an enema is good if you are serious about anal often), and it sounds funny but push out with your muscles... The pleasurable nerves are inside the anus so when you push out he will slide along those nerves instead of just pushing and stretching against you.

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I would say make sure he's hard and he takes the time to relax you. Have him start with a finger and then work his way up to two.
 I honestly just like the sensation of his fingers and he'll do it just when he's fucking me doggy sometimes for some extra stimulation.
When he's actually trying to put it in, make sure he's actually aiming right. With the lube it can slip around and there is no use in him trying to push it into right above your actual asshole! You may need to help guide him in.

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Lots of lube and try not to think about the pain. Ik that sounds crazy

Is anal really as painful/scary as it seems?

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