I'm going through a lot. My Harmony screener flagged my baby for trisomy 13. The CVS preliminary confirmed it, however the genetic counselor and doctor recommend waiting for final results before looking at termination. Im 38 years and 14 weeks along. I have a 2 year old and I want nothing more than for her to have a sibling. I can't find out the gender, because it makes it more painful to think about.