Bad in bed?? why?

Question

I know this sounds a bit shallow but I'm honestly so curious. Everyone has a first time and has to learn at some point. So if sex is supposed to come naturally, why are some people not so great in bed??

I understand in some aspects no communication or lack there of can make for a sad day in the sack but what about the ones in love? The ones who want to actually satisfy their partners? Can sex be taught? Is it worth having a talk about it? What are your thoughts? And have you slept with someone who just couldn't quite get it?

Answer

I think that it's all about how compatible you are! Like I've had sex with this very nice guy but his parts literally didn't match well with mine (he had a weird bend that hurt) also there are selfish people in bed too who care more about their orgasm than yours. I think if you're with the right person then the sex will be good! And if it's not up to par, it shouldn't be hard to fix with some communication.

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Being bad in bed can come from alot of aspects. One chemistry..two angles ..three the wellness of knowing the person...so on so on. My opinion is it's like when someone doesn't know how to dance. Or is nervous to dance in front of someone. It's all in the hips. When a guys hard and inside you he needs to explore the Walls of you vjj. Wiggle around in the back to front ect. It adds to the feeling and helps them find your g spot. Every gspot is different if it's the guy failing in the bedroom. Try different positions. Maybe natural way isn't you. Blmaybe you like more kinky. Or maybe you like more romantic. But no one likes to lay there akwardly staring at the person mounting them ... Make noise  have fun let loose ... Alot of these have roles to play in the bed game if it's something you feel you are not doing.. try getting on top it fills you up feels more intimate... And you hump or grind on him or "bounce" either or you can always talk to fix the missing mojo. Good luck

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For sex to be really good, you gotta let go and open completely to that other person. Maybe I should say that holds true for me. If I'm worried about funky breath or "oh I'm shy I gotta keep my shirt on"....or "I'm too fat"...."I don't want him to see my rolls", I'm not letting go. For my man, he gets pleasure by giving pleasure. He's gotta be the most unselfish lover I've ever had (and I'm older.  Maybe if guys suck at sex, it's because they're selfish lovers. Maybe they need to take the time to ensure their woman is feeling it.

Bad in bed?? why?

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