10dpo spotting and cramping

Sarah
I need advice from Mama's who have already experienced these symptoms and got a BFP! I'm about 10-11 dpo for the past two days I've had light brown spotting and now it has completely stopped. I still have mild cramping and sore breasts. My husband and I are TTC baby #1. I'm trying not to get my hopes up. AF isn't due until 5/16. When should I test? Idk if I can wait until then. Did anyone experience these symtpoms and get a BFP? I normally do not spot this many days before my period. And when I do it immediately turns bright red the next day.