Parents of 3 (or more)

I am currently mom to one and will be ttc #2 in a few months.

Before I had my daughter I though 2 would be it. Since having her I have been dreaming of, thinking about and wanting 3.

We would be able to afford a 3rd. We are upgrading to a minivan before #2 as well.

The problem is; most people I talk to with 3 say not to do it! Including my mother. They say nothing is geared towards families of 5, it's too expensive, you can't give them enough attention.

I am from a family of 5 and have no complaints about my childhood ... We did lots of fun stuff and I love my brothers.

Now I am so torn. I just hate thinking my next baby will be my last. I feel guilt because some struggle even to have one and I want 2 more. I want to give my kids everything but I don't know if I can live with the regret of not completing my family.

Is having 3 really that awful!?