does it count?

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My boyfriend was saying that if you use a condom when having sex it doesn't count on loosing your virginity. But when we did it there was blood so I obviously lost my virginity but he was saying that he used a condom so he wasn't sure. We just wanted to know what u thinked xxx

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That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

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Your boyfriend is stupid. I'd say break up now to save from the inevitable hassle later on.

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It doesn't matter condom or not, if there is a penis inside you, you have lost your virginity

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If you have sex, even with a condom, then you've lost your virginity. Condoms protect you from pregnancy and stds but do not protect your virginity. Remember, it's your body and you know what you felt so if you feel like you've lost your virginity then you have.

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Blood means nothing...no hes wrong but for me PERSONALLY i didnt feel my first time would be real if it was with a condom

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Blood means he was doing shit without consideration to your pleasure. It is for sure sex.

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If it was your first few times having sex it's normal to bleed. That's why they call it popped your cherry! I would just still use a condom but buy some lubricant from the supermarket. You need to go slow and he needs to make sure you're feeling comfortable throughout. If he goes too fast to begin with your body is not used to something going in there and it might bleed. Xxx