fibromyalgia

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Any other moms on here with fibro? How do you do it?? I'm a stay at home mom with a four month old daughter, a dog and two cats, and a roommate with a two year old. My fiancé expects the house to be spotless, all the laundry and dishes to be done, the animals to be fed & let out, and dinner ready when he gets home. And gets an attitude when things aren't done. I know it doesn't sound like much between my roommate and I but she's always chasing her daughter around because our house is basically impossible to child proof, and she can't leave the room without her daughter screaming and crying and throwing a tantrum for her to come back. And my fibromyalgia has been like flaring up these past couple weeks and I just feel like I can't do it anymore. I'm overwhelmed. On top of the regular shit my back muscles have been non stop spasming for the last four days and I can't take my muscle relaxer until my daughters in bed for the night because they knock me out harder than Benadryl. I haven't even had the energy to shower the past couple of days. 
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Sorry for such a long post but I needed to vent. Long story short im like a 21 year old trapped in an 80 year old body and I need tips for staying motivated and energized. I drink a pot of coffee a day and it's still not enough. 😔