I need help

So me and my boyfriend have been living together for about 3 months or so. He works full time. The thing is that when he's off work he never calls me to tell me he just got out off work or at least to tell me he's on his way. I always have to call him to see if he got off work already, he got mad and said that I'm not his mom so he doesn't need to be telling me when he's off! What should I do? He told me he wants to marry me but doesn't seem like it