toxic love

Don't be fooled by lies of love.... don't make excuses for someone over and over again when their never going to change. Don't think you can change them because changing is their choice. As your fighting for those people in your life, make sure your not fighting to be lied to, to be taken for granted, to be disappointed and fighting just to be hurt again. Maybe it's time to let go? 

Because when it's all over... it's knowing that you were lied to and used and taken advantage of who you as a person are.  The thing with toxic lying people is they argue about "your focused on the past" or they say " the problem is that you won't give me a second chance or forgive me".  It's not your fault so don't let them blame you for this... don't let them turn it against you and use you again. They keep making the same choices and the same mistakes to be where they are now. They keep hurting the people around them, and that's not your fault. Sometimes you have to walk away from people you love in order to save yourself. You may love them but they could be the worst thing for you right now.