Ok here it is, I'm thinking about going to talk to my hubby 2b ex gf, she hates me 2 say the least because I'm with the father of her child, she cut all contact about Sep 2016 and it's been nothing but arguing since. She has made it very clear she is stopping so from seeing his son because he's with me, we have been together long before this but we did just tell people we are getting married. keeping this in mind we had regular contact from Aug 2015- Sep 2016. She thought that my so would leave me and get back with her if she stayed in his life. As you can see this did not happen. Anyway so i hoping that if we can talk things over and sort out mine and her issues with each other, then there is a possibility she will be open to my so having contact with his son,even if that had to be at hers for the first few weeks so child and dad can build a bond again, I have no concerns that anything would happen between them, I trust my SO with my life I just want him to see his son and I open minded to how that can happen.