do guys change?

Question

is it true that after the first time you and the guy have sex in the relationship that their personality starts to change or they just change? could i please have your opinions and please no hate, i'm just curious and i've been thinking about finally doing it for the first time in our relationship...

Answer

Honestly I don't think they change. I believe that in a certain way, they become more ocmfortable and open around you. They don't do the things they used to do at the beginning of the relationship because they already know they got the prize (the prize being you). It's not that he has changed completely, he's just not going to go out of his way as often.

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Been with my guy 4.5 years. He's gotten better over the years. The difference is i am his plan. Not his back up plan. The difference. A man makes an effort for what he wants. He makes an effort every single day. He's my first text every day etc. When guys realize you aren't what they want, they either got what they wanted, he did not get what he wanted or fast enough. A mans actions and effort dictate his intentions. If he's not making the effort towards you then he's making it towards someone else. They ghost you and get distant and are a coward to break up with you they just hope you get the point and leave them be. Guys change when they get comfortable they contact you when they are bored or lonely or horny. When sex is the focus that's what happens. Really get to know a guy. Become friends. Figure out if he's worth your time. Don't sleep with him. If he just wants sex he will pressure you or make you feel guilty etc. If he wants to get to know you he won't. Take your time. I was  not easy. He pursued me for 6 months. I told him Day 1 sex wasn't a priority that a relationship was and that if he got it that it would not be regularly. Made him wait a year and a half for it. Best decision I ever made. He's the only guy I made wait. We are best friends. We never fight. Best relationship I've ever been in. He's willing to make every effort, sacrifice and compromise to be with me and keep things going every day. He chooses to make the effort. Wait for that guy. Don't settle so you won't be alone.

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My SO never changed! We've been together 2 years, and he still acts the same, so I disagree, some guys change I'm sure.

do guys change?

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