okay so im 17 yrs old and iv been dating my boyfriend for about two months and iv never met anyone so amazing in my life he treats me so well and hes just perfect to me of course he has his perks but i love them- ANYWAY BACK TO THE TOPIC AT HAND, we have been sexually active together im on birth control and we use condoms every. single. time. so im not worried of anything happening but i know with having sex there is always a risk and we have talked about if there is ever an accident and he tells me that he would tell me to get an abortion right away, and i get that he is allowed to give his opinion and tell me what he thinks we should do god forbid anything happens and i support abortion but i personally dont think i would get it. like i think i should because i have my whole futurw ahead of me and this would just set it back but i also feel like id feel horrible after if i do and i know right now i shouldnt be worrying because im not pregnent but i think its good to think about these things when you are sexuallly active. but anyway if i decide that i dont want an abortion hes gonna resent me because hes always like "im not ready to be a dad like an abortion is the answer" and i think well if you arent ready we should be having sex at all because accidents happen and ik we are safe as fuck but he used to have an ex that he would fuck with no condom like "im not ready to be a dad" bullshit if he used to do that. but anyway i just wanted to rant because iv been thinkingg about it thank you :)))