My boyfriend won't kiss me after a blowjob. Is that rude or what?

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This was a while back, where I gave him a blowjob and he wouldn't kiss me. It honestly made me upset and disgusted with myself because I had given him what he wanted but wouldn't even kiss me back. It made me think that he only wanted that from me. I have spoken to him about it and he had said that he didn't want to taste his own dick. I just feel horrible and disgusted with myself. Was it wrong for me to want to kiss him after?

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I just would never expect someone to put their mouth on something I wasn't willing to?
Like a lot of you are talking about how you wouldn't kiss him after he was going down on you, but he put up with whatever it is you have going on down there so why wouldn't you? 😅
My guy and I switch off during foreplay so he'll go down on me/I'll go down on him then we'll make out for a while, we might do it again, etc (not to completion but just as a tease/building anticipation).

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This may be weird but if I dont wanna swallow the whole load he tells me to half it. So after he cums in my mouth.. I kiss him and he takes half of his cum. He hates it but would do anything for me.

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My man kisses me after I go down on him just like I kiss him after he goes down on me. You're letting them do that to you but won't even kiss them? lol I find it a little weird and I'd be disappointed if he wouldn't kiss me after I was just doing that to him 😂

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My boyfriend doesn't care just like I don't care that he kisses me after going down on me. Every guy is different though so don't take it personally

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every guy is different, especially because every guy tastes different ya know? some days my guy doesn't wanna kiss me after because he doesn't wanna taste it, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love me! it's just a little strange to taste yourself, ya know? so girl don't be upset that he won't kiss you, pleaaaaase don't take it personally. it's just a personal preference of his. i PROMISE he doesn't just want a blowjob out of you and that's why he won't kiss you. i think he's being honest when he says he doesnt like the taste. just take a lil sip of water or smth and im sure he'll be happy to smooch ya again for your efforts ;-)

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And for anybody that doesn't like a kiss after a bj you should appreciate the favor and grow the hell up. But that's just my own wisdom. Some people don't have the mindset of a grown ass man/woman. Ijs

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How he gon say he don't like the taste of his own dick and you just did him a favor?? It's HIS shit! If he don't want you to kiss him after blowing him then tell him he don't deserve the blow! Especially since you don't have to be down there in the first place. Besides, when dudes usually don't wanna kiss a female after a blowjob it's because she a hoe and she been blowing every dude she comes across. If I were you I would be hella offended and not blow him anymore. Simple as that.

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I never try to kiss my husband after. I don't blame him for beig grossed out. I wouldn't take it personally.

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I mean he's basically saying that he thinks it's gross. which I would get frustrated because it's like he wants the pleasure but then he himself thinks it's gross to kiss him after idk I would get mad

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With my ex, whenever I gave him a bj, he'd always kiss me after because kissing really turns me on and I guess that was kinda his way of returning the favour as well as going down on me but I didn't like that as much. He just knew what I liked so..

My boyfriend won't kiss me after a blowjob. Is that rude or what?

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