I had a miscarriage months ago and I've been dealing with the "blues" on and off. I've been dealing with the loss of the pregnancy, but I think the part that I find the hardest is figuring out how I feel about the miscarriage. I know those who haven't had a miscarriage may feel that it's being overly dramatic, but I refer to that pregnancy as my first pregnancy and I refer to that baby as my first child. The baby had a due date, a gender, and possibly a heart beat. I just feel like I can't ignore it and have to honor that pregnancy. Does anyone else feel this way? I can't stand when people try and cheer me up by saying "don't worry you'll get pregnant again" and it feels like I lost an earring and they're telling me don't worry you'll get another one. It's not only trying to conceive again, it's mourning the loss of my baby. I'm also going to try and think of some way to do something in the baby's honor. Any suggestions from anyone else who's been through this similar experience?