Hey y'all!  I've been wondering, is it normal that I have absolutely no sex drive 90% of the time, and when I do, it's only very very slight, and not to the point I need to masturbate or anything?  I've never had willing sex before (was sexually blackmailed for 9 months roughly 2 years ago but that's a long story for another time) and have not really done anything sexual besides letting my long distance boyfriend play with my boobs in an attempt/experiment to see if I even could get aroused, and it didn't work.  I'm a 19 (almost 20) year old otherwise very healthy girl. Do you guys think it might have something to do with the blackmail?  But even before that I had almost no sex drive.  I'm quite confused about this, and this is the first time I've posted anywhere about my blackmailing, so I'm wanting some help.  I've found nothing but support from the people on here, and feel safe enough to mention it here.  Thanks a bunch in advance for any answers y'all might have!