So my bf and I talked on Friday. I had to know why when I got a pos OPK he shut down. First and foremost yes He still wants children! He said knowing that the egg only lives 12-24 hrs and we have such a small window...he doesn't want to feel like a failure of it doesnt happen. The pressure and stress is a lot. (well duh) So we agreed to not tell him when O day is. I'm ok with it (just a bigger surprise for him when it happens) My question is I will need people to vent/talk to. Or I'll go nuts! Plus I wanna keep it exciting...we have a great sex life but I want to have some new fun ideas to bring into it...especially because I don't want him claming up again.