So frustrated

So my baby girl has a dairy allergy, I've been eating dairy free for her for weeks now. The rash cleared up then she started to break out again. Turns out the gas drops I gave her have hidden dairy! 👿 freakin target!
She also has reflux and dairy was making it worse. She choked this morning and it was so hard seeing her eyes water and her screaming in pain. She also has hemangiomas and I'm waiting for referral to go through... found out my pediatricians office JUST sent paperwork a week after it was requested. Then I found out the referral person at the specialist is out of town. Can I get a break and someone HELP my baby girl? 😭 
Okay end rant.