How do you feel about your man looking at porn?

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Does it mess with with your self esteem?
Edit we have been together for over 11 years with 3 kids. I love to watch it with him.. it's when he hides it that hurts me. I like to try new things so it's not like I'm prude or anything.

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I hate it. It makes me feel like he's interested in other people. My opinion he shouldn't be looking at anyone else.

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I am against it. In any relationship I am in, porn isn't an option. I won't watch it with him and he doesn't watch it. If he isn't ok with that then we aren't in a relationship anymore.

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I don't mind but I have limits. If he looks at a girl who took the picture herself and/or her bf put it online, camgirls, etc it just seems to personal and will mess with my self esteem, my boyfriend and I are working through that now. But if its celebrity's, model's and porn stars or what he watches idc, we all have fantasy that our SO won't/can't fill plus periods aren't sexy lol
But if you have an issue with any/all porn your SO should respect that

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I don't have a problem...i watch it alone and he doesn't have a problem either sometimes i watch it with him too..

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I wouldn't care. I'd even watch it with him to get ideas or just ask him if he has something new that wants to try

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Don't care if he watches it but I just don't wanna know/hear about it. I can see why it would mess with someone's self esteem. Best feeling ever: knowing your bf jerks off to you and no one else 🙌😍

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Don't care. I know he loves me and is crazy about me. Plus them bitches ain't got nothing on me 😍😍😍

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I can't hack it, I hate the thought of him getting off to someone else.
I know he'd be destroyed if the shoe was on the other foot, so knowing he does it kills me tbh😑😖

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I'm not against it. Even if I didn't watch it myself, I still wouldn't care. Because I'm secure in myself as a person, and I would be secure in him as well. Don't make him pay just because you have self esteem issues. He shouldn't have to pay a price for your lack of self esteem. That's a problem for you to work on.

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I'm in an LDR so I've always sort of suspected that he watches porn and recently had that confirmed accidentally (I never really wanted to know) I personally don't like it at all. I think it's degrading personally. But it's his choice. I'm ok with it as long as it does not interfere with our relationship in any way. I've never felt inadequate or anything like that because of it (even if it happened when we lived in the same city) because it's never been an issue. We have an active and amazing sex life and he makes me feel attractive and beautiful. So I don't really mind (I just don't want to see it).

How do you feel about your man looking at porn?

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