HELP IM SO SCARED & STRESSED

So for almost about a year now I've been getting bartholin cyst i used to get one every month around the time I'd get my period oddly , but once i got super sick had a fever & threw up from it. I bursted it & it went away it got super small but didn't drain & wasn't painful at all & it was there for a while. Yesterday I seemed to feel it getting big again & not with draining & it a tad bit painful I'm scared to tell my mom about again I told her a long time ago but she doesn't remember & I can't go to the doctor cause she'll find out how do I get rid of this or at least stop it from draining & make it small again how do I unblock my bartholin glands