need help!!

Dally
So me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and two months. The last few months he has really been getting on my nerves he doesn't listen to me about anything and he really don't know how to communicate with me. He comes from a big family of ten and he is a middle child was always ignored and left behind. I try to understand but he literally doesn't talk to me I have to beg him to talk to communicate with me. What do I do? I know guys already don't but any tricks ? Or things u guys done to make him talk?