Sex after postpartum

How long did you wait to have sex after having your baby?

We're you scared? Was it painful? We're you scared your SO wouldn't like it? How long did you bleed for??

I had a baby about 3 weeks ago and my stitches are already healed says my doctor but I want to have sex with my SO but I'm so scared I'm going to rip or it's going to hurt. I had a vaginal delivery