She won't stop

I'm in a relationship with him for 2 years. I never wanted to write this online because I feel like i should never complain about what I'm given.. But for the last few months I keep on falling asleep in tears and realising that I'm not really happy anymore..

Every day I have to witness this other girl (that works for him as a waitress in the restaurant) approaching him and asking things like "would you like to.. fuck me?"(And yes. She straight said that. He replied no.), "if we'd go out together we'd only do naughty things" and watching him making excuses of why he doesn't wanna do it. Not only she directly approaches him, but she also tells him things like "oh you're only since 2 years with her. That's nothing. You have time to make another girlfriend"(which is disrespecting my relationship to be honest) She even made her sister communicate to him that he would fit her and his answer was "Well, she has a boyfriend and i got a girlfriend". It sounds as an excuse almost.. like 'oh you know, we're already taken so..' .

It got to the point when she started behaving with me and even mocking me . She now does this approaching thing to my boyfriend even in front of me. If i tell him that it bothers me, he says that i have trust issues and that I'm jealous in an annoying way already. Since I always bring this up. I know that he denies her and says no,always, but in the most polite way possible that she probably doesn't take seriously. But in the same time I believe he isn't being clear enough since she still is doing this. Something just isn't right. The last time i went to the restaurant to eat dinner with my so, she started being sooo annoying with her "suggestions" and behaviour, that I got out of there crying. That happening, she got outside the restaurant to still wave and blow kisses to my boyfriend as we were going home. The unlucky part is that he can't afford to drop her out of there just now because its very hard to find a full time young waitress in this city.. So there is no way this is a solution for now.. I always ask him why doesn't he just straight tell her in her face that enough's enough. His reply is always that he's scared of her wanting to quit her job and the restaurant having no waitress.. so it's a sticky situation..

I know that normally I should just forget her existence and be happy. But I feel like my whole relationship now is just me pretending that I'm happy because I certainly am not. This thing is bothering me so much that i actually wake at odd hours in the middle of the night and just cry about it. I have no idea what can I do