I've always wondered but not really talked to anyone about it. About 2.5 years ago I was at a party and got blackout drunk and don't remember the end of the night. (My error I take responsibility). However I woke up naked next to one of my friends, not some random guy. I asked him if we had sex and he said yes. So obviously I did not consent but I've always said since I'm the one who chose to get that drunk, I chose to go to that party, etc I made all these choices so I can't blame him. What if I was coming into him? Etc I have no way of knowing. I want opinions! It's been bugging me a lot lately.