PLEASE HELP

Is there any way I can lower my sex drive? I want to have sex everyday and my so almost never does, and when we do he cums and doesn't finish me. I don't even remember the last time I came and this happens anytime I cum, I do once and then months go by before I do again. Our arguments usually revolve about just this because he doesn't even try to get me off when he does have sex with me or when he just plainly does not want to. It's killing me, I need to lower it little to none. Please 😭😭 I get so angry and frustrated I don't even want him to touch me afterwards because he won't, he just lays there and I can't do this anymore 😭😭😭 don't get me wrong I love him to death but I can't continue like this. He doesn't care that I don't he doesn't care I've tried telling him to and I told him I'm going to get him really close and then hold his arms back so he can't finish and he just said "okay" I give hand jobs and blow jobs and sex and get just about nothing in return.