hanging on to a bad reading

Jenny
About 7 years ago I spoke with a psychic who came highly recommended and whom I paid handsomely. 
I was not partnered at that time and had applied to, but not yet been accepted into, law school.  I'm now practicing in two states but, following a pregnancy termination several years prior to that reading, really wanted some reassurance that motherhood was in my future - still do. 
 
The psychic told me that she saw a very comfortable and financially secure life for me - that I would partner with an older person and spend much of our time in France. 
Upon inquiry, she quickly told me that she saw no children in my future. Devastating. 
When she felt my disappointment, she reminded me that her predictions were merely "likely" and that I could still control whether or not I would be a mother. 
The past 7 years, I've feared that this psychic saw what I couldn't. I actually resent that I ever consulted her. Every month that I find we are not expecting, I give her prediction undeserved merit. 
My career has taken off, I could comfortably support a child/children and I have a partner who really wants to parent with me. Still, I'm haunted by that reading and wish I hadn't sought comfort in that moment. I didn't find it then, and I am plagued by it still. Not sure if this helps anyone, but as with all experiences, am sure I'm not alone in this. 
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Ex

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I had got a reading done by physic amber.. She did predict when I would could conceive and she was right but than I ended up having a ectopic pregnancy.... I will never get another reading done because I should have went to GOD and not a physic... And in the Bible it's forbidden, while I am trying again I'm fully trusting in GOD that he will bless me with another healthy pregnancy.... I bd on all my fertile and ovulation days so I'm praying this is it...

Ex

Expecting My 🌈 • Jul 9, 2017
hay Jenny I love your response also

Je

Jenny • Jul 9, 2017
I'm not religious but respect your connection with your God. I think, for me, it's more about placing weight in any belief system that detracts from my choices. I'm really happy that faith in God gives you strength - we all should take it wherever we can find it! I've found it more these days in myself and my love. My partner and I are totally strong together and are pursuing parenthood happily. Bless us all!

Je

Jenny • Jul 9, 2017
Hey Rochelle,

Li

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A psychic told me the other day I would have a hard time conceiving again. I saw her 7 months ago and she said I would have another child in 2019. Like nothing added up. Don't believe that stuff. I too can't help but be affected by it but I know I shouldn't be. 

Je

Jenny • Jul 9, 2017
Hear ya, Lisa. We got this and our will and faith is stronger than their "gift."

Ta

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I'm surprised she even said you wouldn't conceive. Usually they tell you what they think you wanna hear. I wouldn't put much stock in and just keep trying.