Anyone else feel like the only one not pregnant?

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So I found out I was pregnant with my first in February, but sadly miscarried and had a d&c March 29. About that same time, it seemed like everyone I knew started to announce they were pregnant. My sister-in-law just gave birth to twins. I am so happy for them and everyone else, but a part of my heart is sad that I can't have my own healthy pregnancy right now too. It's harder being on this side of 30 (I'm 32) and still not having a family of my own. 
Trying to stay positive, and God is constantly teaching me to be thankful for what I do have and not get upset about what I don't have.
Can anyone else relate?

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Sounded so much like myself I had to comment. I'm 31 and have been trying for more than a year now. Got pregnant end of January and had a miscarriage in March. I find it so hard to be around pregnant women now; it just feels so unfair. I've never felt so happy as when I was pregnant. I just want that feeling back. Getting through it by focusing on taking some other positive steps in my life; changing jobs and moving to another country in a few months.

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GIIRRRLLLL....i feel you.  I even have lesbian friends having a baby.  I'm starting to get annoyed about all the "I'm pregnant!" posts,  the "look at my baby" posts,  etc.  I feel terrible feeling this way

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I don't feel like the only one not pregnant when I'm on this app. Or look on Google, BUT I feel discouraged like it's never going to happen to me again or that I might have repeated miscarriages. I dislike being negative, but it has crossed my mind many times through this ttc journey of mine. We need to have faith, belief and hope in that it will happen. It sure is tough tho....

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Im the same nearly 32 found out i have a blocked left tube so conceiving is taking a while may even need IVF and in the past 2 weeks 6 of my friends and family have announced there expecting! Im happy for them but also feeling rubbish to xx

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I totally understand and relate with you. I had an ectopic pregnancy, later on found out our only option is IVF and even that is on hold right now. And everyone around me is getting pregnant after trying for only a month and not even trying. It's hard to not get envious of others. But at the same time I try to be thankful for what I have and just keep praying that one day I have my own healthy, happy, baby as well.

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Feeling exactly the same! We got pregnant in late December and had a miscarriage in February. Since then I've found out that 3 family members got pregnant while 2 other family members and a close friend were already pregnant. Seems like everyone is but me! People tell me to just relax and enjoy life, keep busy but it's hard to not think about it all the time, and feel depressed about the miscarriage. Easier said than done...I don't think other people really understand so it's nice to talk to other people here going through the exact same thing : )

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I'm 32 and our first was still born in February. I think you notice more what you don't have when you want it so badly. Everyone around me is having babies except me (so I'm right there with you) My husband and I keep reminding ourselves that it'll happen. Maybe not today and maybe not tmr, maybe it'll be ours or maybe it'll be someone else's, but we'll have this family we want so bad one way or another. When I get really down about it I remind myself what a family really is and helps.

Anyone else feel like the only one not pregnant?

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