So Angry...

My 8yr old daughter is mixed half black and half white. Anyways she has a Musically account and she has her cousins on their and friends from school. Well today a girl from my daughters school commented on one if her videos saying "you're freakin ugly,you black ugly little girl" 😠😥😢 I asked my daughter who she is and she says, "I don't know her name but she goes too my school" I'm so upset and angry right now! How do I handle this? Do I drop it and obviously block her on my daughters account,do I find her at school and speak to her parents or do I go to.the front office and involve them??? Uhg,I'm so mad.

UPDATE : This morning I went to the office and the Principle was livid and he said they take cyber bullying very seriously. He asked if I wanted to make a report of the incident. I told him not until I speak with her parents first. He couldn't release the parents information too me but he said he can walk the campus with me until we find her and I can ask her myself and then go from their. We found her and when she saw me ,my daughter and the principle she tried to ignore us and run off. The Principle blew his whistle and made her come straight to us. I showed her her Musically account asked if that was her,she said yes. I said what it your Mom's name she gave it to me and I walked away. I found her Mom on Facebook and sent her the screen shot of what was said. She was absolutely appalled and very apologetic. She is deleting her daughter from all social media accounts and she is grounded for 2 weeks,she is also meeting us after school so her daughter can apologize to my daughter face to face.Im so happy that her Mom is being so proactive about this and hopefully this little girl learns a huge lesson!

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RP

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I'd be at the school asap. They would be seeing me everyday until they did something about it. Unfortunately I've never met a racist that didn't learn it at home first. (Not that it isn't possible). This angry little child is obviously jealous about something.

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I don't know what to say here. That's fucking awful and I wish the children would be punished. But I grew up being relentlessly fucked with at school. I had rubber cemet poured down my back, I had a girl work gum into my hair. I was pelted with rocks one morning. My mother always went to the school and raised hell, nothing was ever done to the kids. The girl who put the gum in my hair also walked with me to the office, because of this they said it "obviously" wasn't her. The time with the rocks my mom demanded they pull the security tapes but they said I was sitting behind a tree so they couldn't see what happened. So I know how hard school administration works to not punish bullies. I would absolutely reccomend taking it to the school, and try to get something done about it. But bare in mind you may be disappointed with the results. I'm very sorry this happened to your daughter and I wish the very best for you both.

Vi

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Definitely print the comments that were left. If printing info from this person's profile is an option do that too. Take screen shots as a backup. It may be possible to find out who it is. Go to the school and be prepared for a fight, unfortunately. I'm sorry that happened and I wish I had better advice. I truly hope the school listens to you. 

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Save the comments, go to the school, demand action ... it's racially aggravated bullying and would never ever be tolerated in my school I teach in. 

Ju

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Show it to the school. They need to be made aware of the fact that social media is obviously a problem with young children these days. At my little brothers elementary school kids were using Kik messenger to bully and they did end up getting punished for it

Ra

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That's a very horrible thing for the little girl to say. I would definitely talk to the school or at the very least her parents. Try to find out what is going on for the little girl to react like this. It's hard when your kids are victims of bullying.

Il

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Definitely screen shot the comments and take it to the school counselor or the principal. I am a school counselor and while it does get harder when things happen on social media vs. school grounds, we can definitely take action if we have the proof. I'm so sorry this happened to your daughter. :(

Jo

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That's why I don't allow my daughter to have musically. Too young these kids & ive seen a couple of musicallys that I don't like 

Ma

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I really think your daughter is to young to be having musically ... but go to school and let them know I really don't think they are going to do anything .. well it actually depends on the school. People are going to be mean in social media which that is social media after all .. today it was someone she knew from school tomorrow you never know who it might be . It is better for someone her age to stick to kids YouTube , that way she isn't insulted by anyone on the internet . 

Ma

Marian • May 26, 2017
Look up videos of musically in regular YouTube you will see that the little girl has nothing to do in this app .

Ja

Ja • May 26, 2017
Yes. This is off topic from the issue but way too young for social media at age 8. I'm not exactly sure what musically is but obviously it's causing an issue in her life. :(

Ca

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I'm not sure what kind of site that is because I've never heard of it. But either way if it's not a program that the school has then there is nothing the school can do to help. Usually if it don't happen on school grounds then there is nothing they can do.

Ja

Ja • May 26, 2017
The middle school level kids could and get in trouble for things posted on Facebook. Take a screen shot of the page and take it to the principal.

Ja

Ja • May 26, 2017
That's not true. I worked in public schools for 10 years. When I was at