when your brother announces a pregnancy...:

Question

I had a mc at 11.5 weeks at the end of March, my husband and I were devastated. Today, my brothers announced his Russian bride-to-be is 12 weeks pregnant. Would anyone else feel like I do? Angry, upset and feeling like I'm just down and out.

Answer

It's completely understandable to feel the way you do after what you've experienced. Please know that the pregnancy of his bride to be and him isn't a hit at your miscarriage. They also received a blessing they've wanted, and have every right to announce and celebrate it. It in no way has anything to do with your miscarriage. I know it'll be hard to be happy for your brother and his fiancee right off the bat. Keeping your distance and dropping any resentments towards them, as well as taking your own time to heal from your experience will help a lot in the long run. If your brother cares about you and your situation, he will understand what you went through and understand if you are keeping things quite and low. It'll take time. Just take it easy. I wish the best for you in your healing and a beautiful sticky baby in the future ♥️ I believe in you.

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