I've been sleeping with a guy for about 3 months now. We are not in a relationship. Well today while having sex he started choking me and slapping me in the face repeatedly. Then told me if I ever cheated on him it would be a hundred times worse than he was doing then. Then he spit a Lougee right on my face. I have a bruise going around my neck and can hardly swallow my food or drink. I was scared for my life. I thought I wasn't going to make it out alive. Do you think he was trying to be kinky or actually aggressive and abusive?