what kind of wedding?

Curious as to who DIDNT have a big wedding... I've been to quite a few in my life, and the stress is not my style. I've always wanted to get married on a beach. Just me, my fiancé, immediate family and maybe my best friend present. I don't even know if I want a ceremony and I rather spend the money on our honeymoon. Has anyone done anything like this? (Or even elope just at home). Any regrets? Pros and cons?