I have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months. He is 26 and hasn't dated anyone for 5 years so I know I'm special to him. He is totally head over heels in love with me, and I think I'm at that point. He is very overprotective and can get very jealous, and that's that only thing that pisses me off. I'd never cheat, but his ex did so I think he thinks I will. He is a really good guy, but he gets crazy jealous.

The same night, I posted a snapchat of me and one of my other guy friends and my boyfriend BLEW UP. I explained that I had known him for years, I just took a selfie with him, the guy is currently dating another guy (he's bi), etc., but my bf was still mad as fuck. We ended up not talking for a few days and then he guilted me into feeling really bad about it.

I'm not sure if it's because of this overreaction and my old fling telling me all this stuff, but a lot of old feelings that I thought I was over have been coming up for my dude from last summer, and I've been dreaming about him almost every night. As I said, I'm not the cheating kind, but if I was, I might have at this point with how upset I have been over my bf going crazy. My boyfriend has been very distant and doesn't seem to want to hang out unless it's to have sex, and even then he just goes straight to sleep without talking to me.

It might just be him having a hard time lately, but the way it's coming off is that he doesn't trust me, and that kind of distrust turns me off/away. It really frustrates me, and I don't know what to do. I've tried to talk to him about it, but he just gets more mad. And that makes me miss my old dude. I know I might sound shitty, but I'm not necessarily crazy in love with my bf and I've been having a hard time with the whole situation. I've asked my boyfriend to quit being so jealous, but he thinks it's just passion and that if we didn't get into big huge fights that that meant we weren't really passionate about each other (which I don't think is true). 

Someone just talk to me about it, I need some girls opinions because my best friends don't really know what to tell me.