Okay ladies, I just recently started masturbating. Usually when my SO is at work and I really miss him. I use my fingers, which is nice and all, but I want to buy a toy. I just don't want to offend him if I do. I don't want him to think he's not good enough because sex with him is honestly perfect and I wouldn't change it, but sometimes I need go take care of myself you know? How do I get a toy to take care of myself without offending him at all?