Am I out?

Zoe
Hi ladies, so af is due sometime in the next 3 days, I've had extremely sore breasts for about 11 days and a little nauseous every once in a while, I did a test this morning which was negative, but I haven't got any usual af symptoms, my question is has anyone not got a positive until after af due, or am I out this month? We've been trying 4 years and already had a miscarriage and an ectopic this year 😭