Are we friends?

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I mean, I don't think so. There's this "friend" I have that is always making snide comments about me- only I can hear these. I only ever see her in a group setting and she acts a little fake, as if we are still as close as we used to be. I miss her as a friend, but her actions just throw me off.

Once, she got up and slapped me at a party and then proceeded to blame me for it, saying I hit or shoved her first. She wasn't that drunk so I didn't know what to make of it.

She will say things like "ew" to me, dismisses me when Im talking to her and it's awkward since we can't have a conversations with just the two of us, but if another one of our friends is there she acts all bubble and fake.

The most baffling thing is that I've seen this girl throw up on herself but she has the audacity to say ew to my friend and I for taking a pic in this weird bar last night.

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That's called being a bully, not a friend.

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Definitely not your friend.

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Even if you hang out all the time, she's not your friend. Friends don't treat each other the way she's treating you.

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That is NOT a friend! Also, I've found that when people feel the need to make snide comments it has more to do with them, and their problems, than you. She is probably either very insecure or jealous of you (jealousy comes in MANY ugly forms). Sometimes I would say, take the high road, ignore her, don't stoop to her level. However, if it's someone you are going to be around frequently, you could pull her aside (probably won't work if she's jealous or insecure)....or, the one I'd rarely go to-but certain times call for certain measures-CALL THAT BITCH OUT IN FRONT OF EVERYONE! I will say, if you're gonna go this route, be prepared for her to try and flip the script on you, act innocent and shocked by your behavior, so again....be prepared for what exact thing you can say to prove she has an issue, not you! Don't let her push you around....because for some reason, she obviously thinks she can!

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Thanks! I just hung out with her in a group of friends last night and I don't know if I'm being sensitive or what, I just know that she  tries act like my friend sometimes but not others so it's really confusing. I guess if someone doesn't try to hangout outside of a group setting then they aren't?

It's really weird because it's as if she tries to act like she's better than me. She'll talk about books and not ask about my opinion- I was an English major! But it's as if she does this on purpose.

She'll try to tell me what or how to workout- I've been working out much longer than she has, and it doesn't seem to be coming from a place of "help".

Very weird and confusing vibes!

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