Hello ladies I need some help. So I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3years now, and it has honesty been some of the best years of my life. The man I call my boyfriend is amazing and sweet, is in college to become an Air Force officer, and makes me so proud and happy. My boyfriends goal is to become a CRO for those of you who don't know what that is, it's a pararescue officer. Meaning he will be in the special forces, flying out in helicopters to rescue dead and or injured soldiers from the battle field. Its a very high risk, intense job, with lots of deployments. He makes me very proud and I support him 100%. He still has two more years of college and ROTC, and there is a possibility that he may not be placed in pararescue/special forces. With all of that said lately I can tell he's becoming more nervous about military life and putting me through the struggles of being a military wife. He's even started saying he doesn't know if he could be married or have kids. We talk about this all the time as a couple and we're working together one day at a time. I love him more than anything and I don't want to lose him because he's afraid of military life. Other than words how can I really prove to him that I'm here to stay, that I will be there for him no matter how hard it gets. I know military life is not easy and most people would advise not to be in a military relationship, but I fell in love with him before the military and I want to be in love with him after the military. What do I do?