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GIRLS😭HELP ME💔

Ok so here's what's going on and sorry for the long message...

So we were at his friends house Friday night cause him and his friends were going to play basketball, and he gave me his phone cause it didn't have a case and so I could take care of it... And I have never gone throughout his phone before cause I felt like I trusted him... Been dating for almost four years now, and he's just had the phone for a year now..

Btw, he's a bit jealous and we both just got Snapchat but a year ago.. and since I know he's a bit I only got like five guys on my Snapchat (him brother, my brother, and three other guy school childhood friends..

But when I went his phone (also I have been cheated on before in the past...) yea he had his friends AND A HELL alot of girls😤 I didn't know how to react since we were at his friends house with alit more people

I was still going through it, and I just saw that he had so many girls there, like girls that I didn't even know and some that even had the name like BootyQueen or SweetPussyxxx....

I really don't mind him having girls on him Snapchat but seeing all this girls there and just posted themselves baked on there stories... WTF!?!?!!!!?

Obviously it's going to hurt me saying that cause it's going to make me think that he wants girls with that kind of body or prettier than me...

But we were still at his friends house and I tried to calm down like nothing was wrong with me.. and then it was like 9:00, and we went back to him house...

First thing I said was You know I trust you and I believe in you, he said yea

Then I said you know I would not every cheat on you, and he said what's wrong..., Then I said that I was going through his phone and saw something on his Snapchat that really hurted me, and then I told him all that that I saw

THEN He said that the reason that he has all those girls there is because his friends had added then there so that they could talk to those girls.....????

But that's just what happened and I'm just really thinking about lots of things, y'all just tell me what you think... Like do you think that's how a boy lies or what would yup do, how would your react Or what should I do or ask him....

Please help😭😭😞

UPDATE:.... And yes I'm the same one that posted porn??? S.O...???

But this is what I'm talking about when I saw his Snapchat