My daughter is still up 3-4 times every night  and I am so exhausted that I feel nauseous every day and get migraines on a regular basis. I never even get a chance to nap during the day. My mom passed away when I was pregnant so I have no help from anyone either. Soon after my daughter was born my husband started sleeping in another room so he doesn't get woken up multiple times a night. He sleeps peacefully through the night every night like he always has. On the rare occasion I'm able to sleep in a little, he will almost never let me sleep for more than an hour extra. He'll always come in and actually wake me up. Today I even told him not to bring our daughter back in until 9:30 because that's when she'd be hungry again and ready for her first nap, but still he came in and woke me up before that because he doesn't like to have to play with our daughter when she's cranky to keep her entertained. He'll just wake me up out of a deep sleep to tell me she's cranky and I have to take her. Today I literally just cried when he woke me up. The last time I was able to nap a few months ago he came and woke me up a few minutes into my nap even though our daughter was sleeping too. And once I'm woken up, I'm up. I can't go back to sleep. We've gotten into our worst fights about this but still he won't even stop waking me up. I feel like he hates me and wants me to fail at being a mom or die from exhaustion or something. I can barely do what I have to do every day. A doctor prescribed me an oxygen tank for my migraines so I can get rid of them with out medication since I'm breast feeding. And still my husband doesn't care. I have no idea what to do to get sleep and to make my husband understand