So I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend who was not a virgin. It hurt incredibly a lot and he finished but I faked it. It's not like it didn't feel good like at first it hurt so much I thought I could cry. But then by the end it was good but some points it did hurt a lot. Is that normal? How do I make it not hurt for the next tiem? And any tips for not faking it and actually getting to orgasim? But also how do I not feeling bad for not finishing?