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Never thought this weekend would end like this?😢😢

My husband wants a divorce. We've been together 22 years & married almost 14 years. We have 2 children. Our daughter is 18 & just graduated HighSchool on Sunday. Our son is 12 & will be in 7th grade next year. He's 42 & I'm 37. In December we found out we were pregnant again by blood test. I have to admit it, I really thought we were done. I already know how emotional abortion is. So I wasn't going through that ever again. But, he stated that he didn't want anymore kids. I feel like he always wants his way. But, I've supported him through everything he ever wanted to do in life & this how it works out for me for being a good wife & mother. He says that's how he feels & nothing is going to change it. I feel like I'm watching reality T.V. right now & this is not my life. I have no support system besides out of state but my job is here. I'm pregnant with his twin boys & he wants nothing to do with me. I know I'm strong but it's hard to shake this off. I've been off of work since February because of this pregnancy. And I've still pulled all my weight & some of his , as of nothing's changed. I don't even know how to feel right now. I'm numb. My weekend started great with my baby shower on Saturday & our baby girl graduating on Sunday. And then a big FU on Monday. I wish u could just turn love off. I've been with him since I was in High School. It feel miserable. I'm 31 weeks pregnant with our twins & he wanted me to get rid of them. I just feel sick.
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Ra

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Girl same. Together 11 years married 5. Two kids age 10 & 7 thought we were done found out we weren't, bought a new bigger house to accomadate baby, BAM he goes off the deep end when I hit 6/7 months. Woke up one day as a totally different person. I have been dealing with this for about 8 weeks now. And we will be getting divorced after the baby. I'm just now able to some what function. It's such bullshit that they get to jump ship and we are STUCK! 

B

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Doesnt sound like he deserves to be their father anyway. Do you really want to be with a person like this? I feel really bad for you. I personally would never abort my child to stay with any guy.You will find a better person. Be strong for all of your children. God bless you.

Li

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What a piece of poop of person he is. He doesn't deserve you and you deserve better support. His loss

Ra

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Wow doesn't sound like he appreciates you. Man he's going to realize how great you are when it's too late. I'm Sorry you are going through this 😞

St

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OMG...I'm terribly sorry you're going through this !! Thoughts and prayers to you and your littles

Ro

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So sorry you are going through this. He sounds like he's still in shock, and maybe he'll come around eventually. You've got this anyway though, and you have two great older children to help you out and support you. All you can do for now is look after yourself and your kids and plan the best possible future for your beautiful new boys. 💪
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