I am gonna get straight to the point. My husband is one of 7. I only have one sister. He has cousins and family surrounding him. I on the other hand do not, my family is all I have here.

With that said we have been together for 13 years and counting. Baby #1on the way after trying for 2 years. I could not be over joyed. We are renewing our vows (surprise to our families) on the day of our baby gender reveal and having a gender reveal because I never had a formal wedding. In afdition to oir hoise warming because we just got a house too. So we thought it would be nice to have everyone over and celebrate, plus I thought it would be nice with the whole family there. Anyways, he has a sister in-laws that isn't a big fan of me so she said no to the RSVP (which i was okay) and now his sister is replying week later (after I asked husband to tect) saying she will be there for a short while. Hmmmm. And these two are tied at the hip. The sister in law is the queen bee. She says jump and this girl not only asks how high but where, how, time etc....i am boiling how do I address this to my husband that it bothers me? And for him to say something?