As a teenager of I masturbated very often, by clit rubbing but never through penetration.  

I've recently lost my virginity and have become sexually active. I've been engaging in sexual activities since January. Ever since, I'm seeming to have a hard time becoming wet. Mentally Im veryyyy aroused, but physically.. I just cannot get wet enough OR I seem to only be "wet" by discharge; which in turn causes pain after intercourse. I know my options of lubricant and such, but I want to know if I can naturally change this situation and get my flora back before seeking lube 😭